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Evolutiion - responsive, simple, up to date, packaged with other well done themes - http://elegantthemes.com/preview/Evolution/
- Don't like ow the images link, there are two icons one for expand and another for link (however we may be able to customize this).
BigBang - meets all criteria and the other ones done by this company look very good - http://demo.brankic.net/?theme=BigBangWP
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